21 Juicy Questions: How Men and Women Answer When It Comes To Dating + More!
I asked 5 men and 5 women a series of questions pertaining to
love, hookups, dating, flirting, and more!
Here's what each of them had to say...
LADIES FIRST!!!
Britta- 27 years old
1. Are you single or in a relationship?
In a relationship.
2. When it comes to a guy flirting with you, what style of flirting works best on you? Definitely a combination of a guy who is funny, silly, and nice... but not too passive. I want him to make the first move.
3. Do you have a type?
No type. I just like matching energies. I like more personality than looks. A chill guy that is caring, understanding, and patient is the best for me.
4. If a guy gives you less attention or plays it cool does that make you want him more? Ugh...Definitely not. I will think he is not interested.
5. Who do you prefer to make the first move?
It depends on the situation. If we are with his friends, he should make the first move...and if we are with my friends, I should make the first move and show affection to eliminate any possibility of embarrassment or just an awkward moment.
6. Do you feel like you have to hold back and not show how bad you want him to "get" him? I feel like slightly yes. You shouldn't put all your feelings on hold but you should definitely respect boundaries and not be all in right away. I feel like guys pull away if a girl is too open.
7. Does money matter in a relationship?
To me, money is not a factor.
8. Have you ever been in a toxic relationship and/or felt heartbroken before?
Yeaah, all of them toxic except one relationship, my current one. Yea, to heartbreak too.
9. What is the longest relationship you've been in?
5 years.
10. In your opinion why did your past relationships not work out?
The relationships didn't work because I chose aesthetic over personality and we weren't compatible. I choose differently now. Who they are is way more important than looks.
11. Do you think all men have cheated or will cheat if given the opportunity?
No, well, it depends on the person...not the gender.
12. Have you ever been in a situation where you had to choose between two or more men and had a hard time deciding? No.
13. Not at the same time, but...Do you think people can be happy with multiple different people?- and do you believe in soulmates?
Different people take up different parts of your life, so yes, and I believe in soulmates...sometimes a soulmate can be a friend.
14. When it comes to dating someone seriously, what is the youngest age you'd go for AND what is the oldest?...When it comes to just hooking up with someone what is the youngest age and what is the oldest?
Would seriously date 2 years younger and, hmm, trying to think about older....That is kind of more extendable (lol)... 6 years older probably. For a hook up, 2-3 years younger and probably 8 years older.
15. How long does it take to decide if a guy is just a fun fling or someone worth getting to know more?
I feel like there is no time limit it just depends on the circumstance and how you feel.
16. Do you feel like your parents or society places pressures on you to not be physical with a man too soon?
I feel no pressure at all from society or my parents. It's nobody else's business what I do within my relationships or with my body.
17. What's something a guy did during the early dating stages that was memorable and you felt was special or really interesting?
It was a movie date. We were watching Moana and I cried at the manta ray scene and he wiped my tears away.
18. What is something you did while dating that you thought was going "above and beyond"?
Pretty much letting him use my car whenever he wanted to.
19. Is one of your goals to be married one day?
Hmm, Not a goal to be married. I just need loyalty and commitment. Commitment is commitment, don't need a ring for that...but the party and the dress would be cool.
20. What is one question you'd like to ask men? Or something you'd really like to know:
I honestly don't even know... maybe...Why is it hard to be straight forward?
21. Final Question. There is no right or wrong answer, just your personal opinion: What is your overall view of men?
That's a hard one...It seems like most guys are not true to themselves, they put on a front sometimes just to get what they want. They need to find themselves as men and better themselves before getting involved with someone.
BONUS QUESTION- Does size matter? (*wink)
Uhh that's a hard question...generally yes... if he is bigger it is gonna feel better ...but if I like him and he has other attributes or qualities that balance it out and he knows how to use what he's got..then I'm okay with it. I just know it is scientifically proven that if it is bigger, it feels better! (lol)
Ace- 26 years old
1. Are you single or in a relationship? Single.
2. When it comes to a guy flirting with you, what style of flirting works best on you?
I like a guy that is direct and confident...puts himself out there and is funny and personable. I say don't hold back but be respectful and mature.
3. Do you have a type?
Tall, a six footer, nothing shorter than 5'7 and that's being generous.
4. If a guy gives you less attention or plays it cool does that make you want him more?
I know there's that thing that says women react more if they get ignored but....No, I put in what I get out. So a guy needs to show me he's willing to give me more and put in the work and I'll give. I'll match his energy.
5. Who do you prefer to make the first move?
The guy. If someone is open and vulnerable with me, I will be that with them.
6. Do you feel like you have to hold back and not show how bad you want him to "get" him? No, I like to be completely real and transparent...just be honest, open, and forward.
7. Does money matter in a relationship?
Money can't buy happiness but it certainly helps!
8. Have you ever been in a toxic relationship and/or felt heartbroken before?
Nothing toxic, but it did have highs and lows...and I've been heartbroken before, long story..
9. What is the longest relationship you've been in?
It was a 6-year relationship.
10. In your opinion why did your past relationships not work out?
We just grew apart really... not compatible anymore. That's all.